How to protect yourself when using dating apps and avoid risks
Dating apps have their origins in the legendary Match , present on the internet since 1995. However, Tinder , created in 2012 for university students in California, would become the most used in many countries, including Argentina.
In terms of security , most of these apps, including Hinge, Badoo, Field, Bumble, and Breeze , have had to strengthen their security due to reports of online abuse or neglect in response to sexual violence complaints.
An article in The Guardian , published in the United Kingdom, indicates that security measures include facial recognition or uploading an image that will then be compared to the user's profile. In addition, blocking and reporting systems and various rules have been implemented to prevent harassment and hate speech .
In any case, you should always be careful . Especially in an age where images generated by Artificial Intelligence (AI) can confuse even the most experienced.
The Guardian 's advice for avoiding risks is as follows:
Little information or heavily edited photos are a red flag. Photo: Shutterstock.
- Pay attention to the warning signs. If the profile contains little information or heavily edited photos, you may be dealing with a scammer. Another warning sign is accelerated intimacy, accompanied by pressure to move conversations from the dating app to other platforms . Be wary of requests for money or personal information, often disguised as stories of personal hardship.
- Take breaks. Like almost all apps, their algorithms encourage continuous scrolling: swiping, chatting, and constantly looking at your phone. But these apps are only part of your life. If you're feeling overwhelmed or noticing your self-esteem is being affected, disconnect. Taking a break doesn't mean giving up, but rather a way to take care of your mental health. Because an exhausted person is more likely to ignore warning signs.
- Maintain conversations. Scammers try to terminate conversations as quickly as possible. While it makes sense to leave the app over time, don't rush to end the conversation too soon and take full advantage of the additional security that apps offer in their messaging services. Of course, avoid sharing your location (home and work) when starting a chat. You should also be careful with photos, as a reverse search can reveal more private information.
They recommend telling someone you trust where the meeting will be. Photo: Shutterstock
- Protect your social media accounts. Scammers are very good at flirting. So, don't rush and take the time to get to know the person behind the profile, just as if you met them at a bar or the gym. You can use Google Image Search or check their social media accounts to see if the details match. Artificially intelligent images are becoming more sophisticated, so be wary if they don't have an online presence. Of course, reverse image searches can also be used by people you've spoken to on apps to track you on social media without your consent, which could lead to online harassment. To avoid this, it might be helpful to use photos for your dating app profile that don't appear on your social media accounts.
- Ask family and friends for help. Even if you've been chatting with someone for a week or two, it's a good idea to talk to a family member or friend about them before making the appointment. Sometimes someone who isn't deeply involved can see things you can't and offer helpful advice. As for the appointment, make sure you're in a public place with good lighting and a crowd . Tell a friend or family member where you're going, who you'll be meeting, and what time you expect to be back. You can also share your real-time location via WhatsApp. If you notice anything strange, cancel the in-person appointment without any regrets.
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